"The Three Don'ts: Don't whine. Don't complain. Don't make excuses."
{ John Wooden }
Whining will only make you seem like a childish person. Complaining will not get you anywhere. Making excuses will not make you any more reliable. Not one of these things will help anyone. It is as simple as carrying out with acts and behaviors that will immediately help or prevent problematic situations that may occur along the way.