"When an archer misses the mark, he turns and looks for the fault within himself. Failure to hit the bulls-eye is never the fault of the target. To improve your aim, improve yourself."
{ Gilbert Arland }
It is easy for many of us to blame others for our mistakes. That my friend is called being irresponsible. We involve others into our situations, when clearly, it does not concern them. When things go wrong, we never take claim of the faults; we blame others. We think the reason for our disadvantages and misfortunes are because our neighbor caused it, we think it's the neighbor's fault. It takes great amount of character and wisdom for someone to take responsibility for their own actions and solve them, not just simply going around and damming everyone.